What's the biggest mistake when entering a new relationship? Taking a whole bunch of different fruits, slicing them up, and making a fruit salad. Call that fruit salad "love" and a mistake is born.
But today, I present you, the foreground/background rule. It is not a suggestion to feeling unattached or uninvolved to new relationships, but a simple rule, if you apply it, you will make sure, that you will keep your focus on what you're living and not what you think you're living, without losing the fun and the great feelings of being in love.
See reality, don't discard affection, attachment, desire, but simply shift all of it from the foreground to the background, let your real you act in your name. Be the drive of yourself, don't let yourself be driven by potent emotions that might obfuscate your sight.
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